I've chosen my outfit for tomorrow's voyage back to the freezing state of Pennsylvania. A tank top, one t-shirt, one heavy shirt, one pullover hoody and one zipper down sweater. Yes, I passionately dislike the cold. In fact, not many people like the cold. Another thing people don't enjoy is lowering their standards and changing their expectations.
Whooooa! I know I caught you off guard with that one. Let me back up a little.
Along with thinking about what to cloth myself with, today, I also thought about relationships and what we, as people, expect out of them.
Gosh, okay maybe you still don't see the connection. My deepest apologies for the inevitable confusion.
Really, from the start we have this idea, this image in our head about what we want, need, and desire in someone else. And then, we do this freakish "egg-hunt" for someone to be ALL that. Then there are times when we find an "egg" (even if we're not looking) and they meet almost all the criteria but are shy a few for the major, ermmmm, elements. So what do we do? Toss the egg? Keep it and change it? Find another one? Sadly, all I did was think today, not find answers.
I do know that tomorrow I will experience coldness against my cheeks and therefore I'm preparing for it with many layer of clothing.
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